As the saying goes, ‘No man is an island’. It is important that we find love and companionship, but for some people this is not that easy. Many guys out there are asking this question over and over again, ‘Why won’t girls go out with me?’.They hope to get an answer that can solve this ‘rejection’, so as to hopefully find the girl of their dreams.
The answer is that there is no set solution as there may be a number of things that are causing this problem. However one thing is for sure – you need to stop taking it too seriously and blaming yourself. You need to believe in yourself, and that there is absolutely nothing wrong with you.
Even though you may have tried to ask several girls on a date, and they refused, the starting point is to believe that you are just like other guys, and you can find the girl of your dreams. If you believe in yourself, you are bound to succeed.
So be more confident and look at the positive attributes you have. It could be helpful if you make a list of these positive things. You will be amazed at how many good things you will find about yourself.
Now that you have listed the good and positive attributes, you may wish to focus on those areas that may require some improvement. If for instance, you do not like your hair, just do something about it. It is easy to ask a hairdresser for a makeover these days. This is just an example, and there are other things that need to be seen to apart from aesthetics.
Ask yourself if there are some things in your character that could make you less desirable. Girls want to find their prince charming. And what factors can make you look like prince charming? For starters, you need to be romantic – so try to find ways that can show your romantic side, such as an occasional sweet gift or card, or shower her with lots of compliments. You should try to show the girl that you are crazy about her, and that you would do anything for her.
However do not overdo it. It is important that you are realistic and truthful. Another important thing that girls look for are good manners. It is also important that you do not appear scruffy or disheveled. Girls want a well groomed man, so make sure you look smart and good looking.
If you follow this advice you will surely start to notice some positive results.